How can you make sure you are not friendzoned by the girl or guy you like?
So you have met this beautiful woman or a handsome dude that you really like. Now when you met, you had no feelings for her. But after spending a few times with them, you start developing feelings for them. They still consider you as a friend but you are not sure if they share similar romantic feelings that you have.
How do you ensure that you don’t end up in the friendzone, an area where you have become to much a friend and all romantic interest disappears?
1. Stop being their problem solver
Now, there is nothing wrong with giving him or her a listening ear. But if she is coming to you for guy or girl problems, then we have a big problem! You not to immediately stop being the person they run to for such. Let her know that you are not comfortable. Stop being too obliging.
2. Don’t be too much of a friend.
Now, I am not saying this in a bad way. What I really mean is, if you are too available to her as a friend, you will be frienzoned for sure. The key here is to drop hints that you are interested in being more than just a friend. Compliment her on her appearance … flirt with her and let her know that you find her sexually appealing.
Also, let her know that you are sexually available and that you enjoy spending time with her… alone!
3. Take her to fun places they enjoy
Excitement builds arousal that’s for sure. So enough with those boring dinners. Do some fun stuff together. Go out of your way to make them feel special. Now if they are into dancing, nothing brings 2 individuals closer. Take advantage when she leans closer.
4. Touching her or sneaking in a kiss is a sure way to know you are not being friendzoned.
If you don’t state your intentions boldly, you will never know. And touching does build intimacy. SO go for it. Let your feet touch each other… put your hand on their lap. If they are feeling you, they will touch you back. And if they do, its time to move in fast!
Go for it! Lean in for that kiss. What relationship can you build without a kiss? If she responds accordingly, dude she wants more… If they don’t, its time to move on!