Are you and your spouse happy together?
When a couple starts a relationship it’s usually very upbeat for most of them. Everything is rosy. Some even manage to finish their sentences together. Now during the first days of a budding romance, each partner usually goes out of their way to impress one another. However, as time goes by, some couples get comfortable. And before you know it, things become stale and boring.
When you go onto the internet, there are so many topics that couples search on relationships. For instance, “How do I maintain the chemistry in my relationship?”, “How to succeed in a long-term relationship” among other things. Clearly, it seems more couples really want to be happy together. They want to have the kind of relationships that lead to old age and taking care of one another in old age.
So how can a couple have a happy and fulfilling relationship throughout?
As a couple, you need to find ways to turn up the heat and maintain or rekindle the fire. Now when it comes to fire, sex is what most couples think about. However, being happy, and much as sex is important in a relationship, sex alone doesn’t cut it. You have to also maintain the emotional connection too.
That said, let’s talk about sex first
Now if you used to turn each other up-side-down when you first started dating after a while, most couples just prefer the plain old missionary position. This is not saying that the missionary doesn’t work. There are various versions of it that can work to your advantage. Try doing it with the woman’s legs on the shoulders.
Now, in one session, you can manage to go through a number of positions, especially those that allow eye contact or those that make it easier for clitoral and boob access to make the woman orgasm faster. Outlined below are some of the sex position names you could try out and their variations:
Compliment and appreciate one another.
Women love praise. Now one thing that can make a woman happy is by appreciating the little things she does with a simple “thank you” note. At the same time, try as much as possible to remind her how sexy she is every now and then.
Now, this goes both ways. A man also likes to know that his efforts are also being recognized. Now for men, the appreciation is more on him providing and how he does masculine things around the house. Always let your man know that he matters.
Gift one another
Nothing says ‘I love you’ and ‘you are always on my mind’ like surprising your loved one with a gift or flowers. It doesn’t have to be something that will break a bank. Get an engraved key ring for your man, buy him new golf clubs. Flowers always put a smile on a woman’s face. Chocolate too. And while at it, never forget to gift her on birthdays and anniversaries.
Don’t forget date nights and getaways
Always find time for yourselves. Go out and have some fun. Somewhere where you can enjoy each others’ company. Plan simple dinners. You can also have picnics with one another as you watch the sunset. Also, take vacations or a night away from your usual home settings. Taking the love away from the usual has a way of heightening and freshening things up.
Go down memory lane
As a man, if you can keep reminding your woman of the things that made you fall in love with her, or the first night you met, then you have her attention. Do little things to remind her of those special days that you made her feel like she is on top of the moon.
Reminiscing about these moments usually, makes one remember why they fell in love in the first place. And this also makes them remember why they should do whatever they can to make it work.
Be faithful and true
Secrets are bad for relationships. Share with one another the things that matter most to the two of you. Being faithful and true to one another is something that is necessary for a couple to be happy together. If you feel temptations coming their way, seek therapy and find ways as a couple to get back on the trust plane.
Saying “I love you” goes a long way.
Never forget to kiss, cuddle and say “I love you” as often as you can. Say it with words, say it with nice gestures. But most of all, let your actions always reflect how much you love one another by doing all of the above.