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Activities that an interracial couple can do together to boost their love life

There are various couple activities that people in interracial relationships can do together in order to keep their love going. Normally people usually say that couples who have lasting relationships are those who do stuff together. I once read an article that said that couples who have similar drinking habits have better and lasting love. Who am I to deny that?

Anyway, we have to admit that most interracial couples, especially those that come from different regions of the world usually have a lot of cultural differences. But as a couple that has merged together in love, its time that both of you merged those differences in order to come up with something that works for both of you.

Below are some couple activities that are great for couples’ bonding.

1. Cooking together

Cooking together really makes a couple bond because you will always be taking… “Pass me the salt.” “What spices should we try out this time?” You will always have something to say. Try cooking while having some wine.

As an interracial couple from different cultural backgrounds, how about each week, you cook your traditional meals together. Then try and tweak the recipes to kind of make them “your own”. Kind of like something that incorporates the best of both worlds.

2. Traveling

You might not get to do this all the time, but traveling can be such a fun thing to do as an interracial couple. How about making it a point for each one of you to visit your native countries and learn about the culture, foods, and traditions. It can be such a great bonding experience as you explore each other’s worlds. Plus the explaining what things mean gets you talking.

3. Try couple activities like Kayaking

Kayaking is such a fun activity for couples. This is especially so because you get to put on some of those bikinis and shorts and show some great. This is definitely a great view as you row away. You can also play games like getting each other wet!

4. Go for sporting events

Men and sports! However, if you want to really make a man adore you, take an interest in the sports he loves.

 

 

couple of happy friends

Tips to make sure that you don’t end up friendzoned

How can you make sure you are not friendzoned by the girl or guy you like?

So you have met this beautiful woman or a handsome dude that you really like. Now when you met, you had no feelings for her. But after spending a few times with them, you start developing feelings for them. They still consider you as a friend but you are not sure if they share similar romantic feelings that you have.

How do you ensure that you don’t end up in the friendzone, an area where you have become to much a friend and all romantic interest disappears?

1. Stop being their problem solver

Now, there is nothing wrong with giving him or her a listening ear. But if she is coming to you for guy or girl problems, then we have a big problem! You not to immediately stop being the person they run to for such. Let her know that you are not comfortable. Stop being too obliging.

2. Don’t be too much of a friend.

Now, I am not saying this in a bad way. What I really mean is, if you are too available to her as a friend, you will be frienzoned for sure. The key here is to drop hints that you are interested in being more than just a friend. Compliment her on her appearance … flirt with her and let her know that you find her sexually appealing.

Also, let her know that you are sexually available and that you enjoy spending time with her… alone!

3. Take her to fun places they enjoy

Excitement builds arousal that’s for sure. So enough with those boring dinners. Do some fun stuff together. Go out of your way to make them feel special. Now if they are into dancing, nothing brings 2 individuals closer. Take advantage when she leans closer.

4. Touching her or sneaking in a kiss is a sure way to know you are not being friendzoned.

couple kissing

If you don’t state your intentions boldly, you will never know. And touching does build intimacy. SO go for it. Let your feet touch each other… put your hand on their lap. If they are feeling you, they will touch you back. And if they do, its time to move in fast!

Go for it! Lean in for that kiss. What relationship can you build without a kiss? If she responds accordingly, dude she wants more… If they don’t, its time to move on!